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Lifestyle & Sexuality Workshops

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for Best Adult Educator and website!!!

Want to discover more about your sensual self or perhaps you're unsure about how to start? Our workshops cover a range of Lifestyle starting points for you to begin your journey of sexual self-discovery!

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Newbie Couples Workshop

Interested in the liberated lifestyle but not sure what it's all about? Do you have many questions that need answering? Want to find out more in an informal, relaxed environment? Bring your partner along to our Newbie Couple Workshop for an afternoon discussing safer sex, online safety, swinging, swapping and all the other delights of the lifestyle.

These are our most popular workshops and so registration is required. Option for entry to the club when it opens (membership required for club events). Register now for our next afternoon.


What newbie couples say about us...

Our first visit to Purple Mamba and we loved it!
The hosts were fabulous and made us feel very welcome and instantly at ease. Both funny, friendly and very sexy.
The club is small but beautiful and each room is unique, clean and great attention to detail, we definitely made good use of a couple of them ;)
The people were brilliant and great company, we enjoyed the chats, flirts and naughtiness and we soon forgot we were the newbs! Until next time, M & H x

We really enjoyed attending the New Couples Workshop today. Thanks for making us feel welcome and relaxed. I'm sure our new membership will be well used. Looking forward to seeing you again soon xx

Great place, warm and welcoming. First time we visited and won’t be our last. Met some great naughty couples, I highly recommend Purple Mamba for new cummers!! Thanks for a good time!

Single Lady Evenings

So, you're curious but unsure about how to start? Or perhaps it's a little bit daunting going to a club on your own? For whatever reason, you're welcome to come and join us for a relaxed, informal evening and talk about the lifestyle which will cover all the basics, alongside giving you the opportunity to meet other women with an interest in the lifestyle. The evening will cover:

Lifestyle clubs


Safe Sex


What to Wear

and other naughty delicious things!

Register for our next evening on the button below. There will be an opportunity to apply for membership after when the club opens. Photo ID required, over 21's only. 



What do single ladies say about us...

A couple of months ago I made my first visit to this club. I am very new to swinging and was very nervous. After months of looking at their FB page I finally took the plunge and decided to go. Nerves were still getting the better of me and so I mailed them on their page just beforehand. Their replies were very supportive and welcoming, giving me advice and the confidence to finally take them steps through the door. Once there I found the hosts to be very warm, friendly and extremely sexy. The bar downstairs has a lovely atmosphere and great live music. Decor is sexy and tasteful. I felt at ease very quickly. Once signed up to my new membership I was taken on a tour of the rooms. They have a good variety and each one unique. That evening was certainly one that will be with me for a long time. I absolutely loved it! So much so that I was back the following week.. and the next.. and the next. If you are considering your first visit then my advise would be consider no more! Go now! You will love it!

Amazingly great place and friendly people here. Been made to feel very welcome each visit. Lots of lovely laid back naughtiness each time.

Single Gent Introduction to the Lifestyle Workshop


Sometimes it's hard being a single gent in the lifestyle, it's far too common to feel a little unwanted, that no one is replying to online messages and that your perceived as a bit of lecherous individual.... but without single gents, the lifestyle simply wouldn't work. ​You are a vital part of the liberated lifestyle community, you just haven't realised it yet. 

Join us for a workshop looking at issues and problems associated with single gents, including:


Online communication and safety

Safe Sex

How to approach single ladies/couples

Personal appearance & style

Different personas within the lifestyle

The workshop will take place outside of usual club opening hours, giving you the chance to discover the club environment at your own pace. Each workshop costs £35 and should last no more than 2 hours. Spaces are limited. The next workshop is aimed at those in the 20s - 50s age bracket. Other age groups will be within future workshops. These workshops are more adult in nature than the others and covers a range of different issues that single gents may meet in the lifestyle.  Over 21's only (photo ID will be requested upon entry). 

Here's what previous participants have to say:

''Impulsively attended the Single Gents Workshop at Purple Mamba, primarily out of curiosity, and I'm so glad I did!

It was good to be able to visit the club during non-opening hours and have a proper look around without feeling you're getting in the way.

We had the perfect hosts and tutors... any initial shyness or embarrassment is soon lost!

With the group of just a handful of single guys the numbers felt right to keep the atmosphere relaxed with no struggling to get your voice heard or your questions answered.

I won't go into any detail about the content other than to say it goes through your website profile and onto club etiquette in a very helpful and fun way for those single guys who are struggling to make headway while maintaining a polite and respectful attitude.

I can't recommend it enough and was lucky enough to pass the club's scrutiny when deciding I'd like to join the club itself.'' Mephisto666

''The single gent workshop at the Purple Mamba Club is an excellent idea that is executed very well by both hosts who are experienced swingers. The club, the atmosphere and agenda are perfect. More importantly the welcome from hosts and others attending made the workshop relaxed! I would highly recommend the workshop to blokes venturing into the world of swinging, casual sex and even dating as it provides the perfect environment to ask questions, learn from those present and build up an understanding of what makes you attractive to others both online and when in a club environment. The best part for me was the tour of the club where the hosts pull no punches in demonstrating what to expect - very exciting! And the the chance to get direct feedback and help on your online profile. I am looking forward to attending and joining into to a club night here soon!'' Anon

  Sexology and Sensuality Workshops

Looking to explore your sexual nature further in 2024?  Whether to learn how to escape the tension of a busy. hectic lifestyle, explore your own sensuality and sexuality or work on any  sexual anxieties and performance issues, sensual massage workshops can help couples and individuals gain knowledge within the most intimate parts of the self. 


These workshops cover a range of approaches to sensual well-being, looking at body comfort and confidence and encouragement of sexual freedom. Keep an eye on the 'What's On' page for dates and individual workshops. Workshops are in-person and online (check individual dates for details)

Upcoming workshops include:

Dirty Talk 

Discovering Your Inner Domme

Beginners Intro to Kink

Tantric Sensuality: The Basics

Lifestyle Escapades

Oral Pleasure

Master Your Control - Arousal Awareness

OMG Orgasms

Erotic Massage 101

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